Month: May 2023

The Leap: Relearning Lessons- Lesson #2: Have a Little Faith

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The Law of Faith is about trusting the inherent love and intelligence working through you and all creation.

Trusting in Spirit, The Laws of Spirit, by Dan Millman

The second lesson I’m having to relearn is the ability to put faith in the Universe (God) that it will support me. My Australian adventure was my first test of faith, where I jumped and the net revealed itself every step of the way. My faith carried itself over into Colorado. I moved knowing one person, but through that one person serendipitously found a job and a living situation that worked itself out nicely. It couldn’t have worked out better even if I had planned it. It was proof that the Universe conspires to work in my favor. So why haven’t I learned and embodied this lesson?

Past traumas and a parental example are forefront in my mind. I witnessed and experienced my father completely implode his life, making terrible choices that further impacted him and his family (me) negatively. I catch myself wondering if I’m likely to repeat his karma. At one point during this transitional period, readying myself to move to Oregon, my mom implied she was afraid I’d end up like my dad.

With his misfortunes in the back of my mind, I still press on with my decision to pack up and wrap up my life in Colorado, because I feel in my gut and bones there is a greater force at play. Spirit (Holy Spirit) has been preparing me to make this move since 2021, when Washington/Oregon was first put into my consciousness. Physically, I’m feeling called to the land in Washington, across the Columbia River from Hood River. There’s medicine for me in the land in Washington, possibly even a spiritual teacher waiting for me there. Through meditation, it’s been revealed that my knowledge of nervous system and emotional regulation is my medicine I will bring to the Columbia River Gorge. With intuitive hits, downloads and sensing, I feel divinely supported. Yet, it’s hard to have faith when I’m craving concrete evidence that everything will work out.

I’m taking a big risk in having faith in the Universe. I’m out of my comfort zone, waaaaay past my growth edges! Letting go of control, letting go in general, is not my strength. Not knowing details like a job or stable living situation still has the ability to send me into an anxiety attack. As I’ve been told by a psychic friend, my ability to “logic this out” will be of no use to me, and will even hinder my ability to thrive in Oregon. Fuuuuuck! That’s literally how I’ve survived the past 36 years.

This chapter, this launching off point, feels much different than the Leap I took to Australia/Colorado. My spiritual practice has deepened, and I have more spiritual tools in my tool belt. I can feel the Universe’s supportive energy. I feel Spirit calling me to push myself into significant and expansive spiritual growth. I just need to surrender and believe that the Universe will support me. I just gotta have faith (faith, faith).

The Leap: Relearning Lessons – Lesson 1: Trusting My Wings

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Working as a school teacher, there are times when students require that I reteach a lesson to ensure they adequately master content. The Universe, being the ultimate teacher, is circling back on lessons I was supposed to learn during my first Leap to Australia. One of the lessons? Trusting myself.

For my first Leap, I landed in Queensland, Australia. My first week I stayed at a hostel, but quickly realized the hostel atmosphere was not what my soul was craving. I craved deep, authentic connection with travelers, locals and like-minded kindred spirits, so I opted for a work-stay with a local family needing help renovating their rental property. Steve, the father, was a world traveler and we bonded over travel stories while painting and renovating the property.

I recounted my interpretation to Steve, of the lesson I thought I needed to learn during my time in Australia. He had a totally different perspective and I’m appreciative he shared it.

“I don’t think it’s a matter of trusting the Universe, I think it’s about trusting yourself in your own abilities,” Steve insisted.

To explain his point, he proceeded to tell me a story about a bird, who found himself on a weak, unsteady branch.

“Now this bird has two options, he can trust that the branch will hold him, or he can trust his wings and his ability to fly.”

Cut to present time: After spending two weeks in a victim mentality, stressing about the unknowns of Oregon (specifically what to do for work and where to live), in one day, I had two people tell me, “the Universe doesn’t give you more than you can handle.”

Clearly, it was something the Universe needed me to hear. If this is something the Universe thinks I can handle, I thought, why am I acting like I can’t handle it?

That’s when my mentality shifted from victim to designer of my destiny. I began to believe in my ability to make this move happen, all on my own. And my actions followed. Organize a garage sale? No problem. Get furniture picked up for free? Done. Get a property manager to rent my house? Check. Start an LLC for the rental property? Yep.

All of the necessary moves that needed to happen fell into place, all in the right timing. But this little birdie doesn’t just have faith in my own ability to fly, I also have trust, trust that the Universe is conspiring on my behalf. To provide me with abundance. This is where I differ in my opinion from Steve’s. It requires a combo of trust and faith. Both, and.

You can read my original post of my Australian lesson: Trusting My Wings

In my next post, I’ll explain more about the 2nd lesson I’m needing to relearn, Having Faith in the Universe to Provide.

The Leap: The Abundance That Surrounds Me

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Sitting, watching as strangers comb through my belongings at my garage sale, the things I no longer feel called to own, I’m reflecting on the process that went into the purging of my Colorado life in preparation for my Leap to Oregon.

It all started several months ago, I had a vision in meditation that showed me packing up my Colorado house. It was a strange feeling seeing that vision, sensing it was from a Divine source but not understanding how it would play out in my life in the months to come.

Skip to three days before my yard sale, speaking to my property manager, I had the sobering realization I had to empty out my entire house if I was going to rent it through his company. My heart sank and my anxiety peaked. My expectations of keeping my belongings in the house while renting it was shattered. You know what Buddhists say about having expectations, it’s a clear path to suffering. Damn.

I suffered both apprehension and trepidation in clearing my house in three days… by myself. At my lowest point of sheer mental exhaustion from ruminating on my worries, I offered the process to God.

Dear God, please take this burden from me and help me through this process!

Instantly, I felt internal peace, and confidence to proceed with purging. Through signs from the universe I was assured that I could do this by myself. Twice that day I was told by two separate people, “The Universe doesn’t give you more than you can handle.” When the same medicine is offered twice in a day, I take note.

If Universe thinks I can handle this, why am I not acting accordingly? I questioned. So, I put on my big girl panties, and got to work.

By the end of those three days here I am, with the majority of my belongings sitting on my driveway being rummaged through and valued (or devalued) by strangers. It’s certainly weird to watch, but I’ve had another fascinating realization.

My yard sale is visual confirmation of the abundance I’ve accumulated over the past 6 years. Ironically, for those 6 years I lived with a scarcity mindset thinking I never had enough. I constantly craved and grasped onto measly scraps I had or was entitled to. Turns out, it was all a matter of perception and my perception created my reality. For those 6 years I felt I was lacking.

But this weekend, I’ve felt fulfilled giving some of my favorite things away to friends, especially items I knew they would enjoy. I felt at ease donating left over items and selling to strangers knowing they could benefit from my overflow of abundance. It’s as if God said to me, Abundance has been there the whole time.

What a huge shift in perspective! Now, instead of living from scarcity, I’m opening myself up to look for the abundance and ultimately joy in each moment. I’m finding gratitude in the mundane moments, such as thanking Universe for the means to be able to pay for gas. I give thanks noticing how the golden beams of sunset reflect off the tall grass at just a slight angle, as Bdawk sniffs along a neighborhood trail. I’m soaking in our final moments before we each head off on our own adventures.

Ultimately, I now inner-stand that abundance surrounds me even in my darkest moments of scarcity. It is up to me to shift my perspective and take notice. Universe is constantly providing and caring for me, (even if I don’t open myself up to that inner-standing) and for that I’m eternally grateful.

The Leap: Cracked Open

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To distract myself from the dizziness of packing up 6 years worth of Colorado life, I decided to go see the movie The Mirage, documenting Timothy Olson, an ultra-marathon runner, running the Pacific Crest Trail to beat the previous record of fastest thru hike time.

I connected with his emotional struggle, throughout his time on the trail and especially his recount of addiction to drugs and alcohol and his road to sobriety. What struck me was a quote from the documentary about pushing outside of one’s comfort zone and confronting challenges.

Why would I want this to be easier? Why would I want a red carpet finish? That’s not why I was struggling from day one on. That’s not why I’ve been working on this for years. I wanted this to be a challenge because challenges in life crack you open. -Timothy Olson, Mirage documentary

The last few days have been particularly challenging. I’ve graduated to the part of the hero’s journey where beginners luck has ended. Synchronicities, although still happening, are less prevalent and now I’m facing challenges and obstacles. I’m realizing this transition requires physical, mental, emotional and spiritual purging. A purging of not just stuff, but all of my old belief systems that have kept me stuck or in a holding pattern, resistant to pursue the life I truly desire.

Energetic and spiritual purging is much like detoxing from drugs or alcohol. It is physically and emotionally painful. It has brought out my worst insecurities to the surface in order to be process and released. I’m confronting my fear of houselessness. I’m battling my core belief of worthlessness. I’m confronting my fear of the unknown and my uneasiness to trust that the Universe (God) will provide. I’m confronting my scarcity mindset that has prevented me from living a life of abundance. I’m confronting my past conditioning, my biggest traumas and negative core beliefs. I’ve been cracked open.

It certainly has been uncomfortable to be cracked open. It leaves me feeling raw and vulnerable, whittled down to my purest, authentic essence. But maybe that is what this Leap is about, being cracked open to my most authentic version of myself, so that I can live the life I’ve truly been called to live.